Living life, you never know who comes into it and leaves. Sometimes they come for a season, sometimes a reason and sometimes a lifetime. But sometimes you need to erase certain people from your life because they are bad for you and your life.
I had an occurrence this weekend that helped enlighten me on how to act towards certain people. It was a short period of enlightenment lasted only one evening but in that evening I received a wealth of knowledge that will benefit me for a lifetime.
- Some people are totally oblivious about how others feel, Im not sure if its there fault because they were raised by wolves or the fact that they just simply don’t care. Either way sometimes they either need you to spell it out for them or they need a nice hard slap.
- When you feel that something will go wrong, it usually does. Maybe its your intuition, maybe its the fact that you formed that reality by thinking it, but either way, try to avoid it and jump over that obstacle instead of hitting it with your face head on.
- Almost no one is going to assist you with anything if you don’t ask, and the people that do assist you from their heart are the true people in your lives. I personally don’t like to ask for anyones help/assistance/etc. But when I see someone needs my assistance and I care for the person I am always there. They don’t need to ask.
- Don’t try to force it if you feel that a person doesn’t belong in your life. If you think that they aren’t good for you, they probably aren’t. No matter how many “kind words” they say.
- Always strive for happiness no matter what. If something makes you unhappy but makes a loved one happy, and you are willing to sacrifice then do it! But if it makes you unhappy and you don’t care about how the others feel then don’t do it! You will regret it. (I went to a party this weekend because i was there to celebrate my best friends birth, even though I knew I shouldn’t have been there.)
Thats all I can think of for now from my disturbing night. Im feeling a lot better after actually getting this down in writing. Very happy to close that chapter in my life, and begin a new book.
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